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Caregivers : The Problems Hidden In Plain Sight
Your clients ’ plans are only as solid as the least prepared person in their circle . By Suzanne Schmitt
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THE LAST FEW YEARS REALLY CHALLENGED ME to keep two things in perspective : caring for the people I love most — with the toll it takes emotionally , physically and financially .” As a three-time caregiver , Lisa would know .
Parenting
Lisa , a former colleague of mine at a brokerage firm , became a parent a few years ago . She assumed she could keep her job when she became a mother , and she and her husband , Jeff , secured a slot for their son , Jake , in a daycare near her office . Things worked well , until they didn ’ t . Lisa earned more than Jeff , but she had an unpredictable schedule . A couple of times , the school needed someone to pick up Jake , but nobody was around . Lisa wondered if they could keep it up , and after a few heart-to-hearts with Jeff , she left her job and stayed out of the workforce until Jake started school .
Reversing Roles After a few years , Lisa went back to work , Jeff was promoted , and Jake went to preschool . Things seemed normal .
But then one morning Lisa got a call that her dad was in the ER after what was suspected to be a heart attack . Her mother let her know he was stable but needed cardiac rehab . Could she come ? Lisa gave her team a heads-up that she ’ d be gone for a week . One week turned into several . After she ’ d exhausted her vacation time , she took a leave so she could help Mom see Dad successfully through rehab .
Aging Alone , Together
Her father ’ s heart attack was a wake-up call for both parents . They decided it was time to retire , albeit earlier than planned , and enjoy life . To help compensate for their retirement savings shortfall , they downsized and moved to a state with lower costs of living . While Lisa was happy to see them thriving , she missed them . And
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